I haven't seen Patti here in a while. Looks like it's just the 3 of us. But if anyone else is out there, Happy New Year to all of you! We're going to a barbecue on Sunday at Avi's sister's house, but tonight will just be a quiet night at home, watching the festivities on TV--and having a private toast!

Happy Holidays to all of you! Enjoy your families and your time together and your gifts! I'm going to a movie this afternoon with my daughter ("Blind Side"). And this morning I'm going hiking with my friend. We decided to get back into it after a long break. It sounds like more fun to be sitting under a tree opening presents, but.....

Merry Christmas, all my friends...May Santa be especially sweet to you! Hard to believe that after all the hussle and bussle that its almost over. Travel safely where ever you may go!
Happy Thoughts....

Hi, Karen. It sounds like you're in the overwhelmed, after-vacation, catching up mode. I know that feeling well. I'm finally almost back into my routine after 3 weeks in Israel and 2 and a half weeks touring around here with my sister and the girls. I agree that we only scratched the surface when we got together, but at least we scratched a lot of surfaces! If we had had more time, we could have gone deeper and been there for hours. Happy Holidays to all of you. Tonight is the last night lighting the candles. I'm not much of a holiday person. Can't seem to get into any holiday except maybe Thanksgiving because I love turkey and cranberry sauce. I do like seeing all the Christmas lights, though. It's so pretty.

Thanks, Kathi. I've been trying not to eat too many Hannukah donuts. They're SO fattening. You got the snow. We're getting the rain now. But that's okay. I feel like just staying at home and resting now. I had a fun, action-packed visit with my sister and the 2 girls. We were out every day doing something different every day. Now I'm trying to get back to my "life," whatever that is....

Hi Everybody from snow covered Springfield....we had a foot of snow this week and the temps this morning are in the teens...so winter has arrived here. Been a fun week putting on those snow pants and boots....homework for kids....learn to do it yourself!!!! I really appreciate those parents who have taught independence and don't do everything for their kid! It is so helpful...
I am behind in all my shopping, decorating, cooking, card making..but I am sure it will all pull together, it usually does. And if I got off the computer it might get done faster!
Hoping everyone is finding time for themselves in this hectic season....Lori, a Happy Hanukkah to you and your family. May there be PEACE on Earth soon! Happy Thoughts....

Hi Kathi. Good luck with your job. I hope they realize your importance and keep you!

It was really nice seeing Karen. We had coffee in Beverly Hills. I think we covered every possible subject even though we only had about an hour and a half! I saw Rich for a few minutes, too, at the end of our visit. If you ever make it to L.A. , call me!

I hope that you and Karen had a great visit! She probably brought the rain with her!!
It is cold and winter here in Vermont. Such excitement...kids with snowpants and boots...they have a hard enough time zipping their own coats..let alone put all the other stuff on...we have to start getting ready for recess 20 minutes early...such fun. A real snowstorm is suppose to be coming in on Wednesday..not sure how much we are suppose to get.
I went to the school board meeting tonight. We did a presentation to the board on the "ABC's of a Paraeductor"...if the budget doesn't pass they are threatening with job cuts...so we wanted the board and the town the importance of us in the classroom to the students and teachers. The teachers read a letter on our behalf..and the PTA did an online petition that they presented to the board...so hopefully, they won't cut our jobs. We'll see!
Hope everyone is well....

I'm going to meet Karen this morning for coffee at her hotel! Looking forward to it. Too bad it's raining today. It's been sunny ever since my sister got here, but now the weather suddenly changed. Not typical L.A. weather. We're spoiled here!

Just a quick hello. I've been busy traveling around with my sister, her daughter, and her friend. We got back from San Francisco on Tuesday. Now we're doing this area. Karen, if you have some time, get in touch!

Seems like everyone is keeping busy...I am finding myself very tired at the end of the day..my hibernation mode has really kicked in. It is cold here...no snow as of yet...a few flakes to remind me that its coming soon.....trying to get some shopping done and decorating.
Lori, glad that you had a great trip! I love traveling through my friends trips! The furthest I've been lately is NYC....and we had a great time walking and eating our way through the city for my daughters birthday. I hope that you and Karen can get together in CA...it would be fun!
Not much is really new here...just getting ready for the holidays and trying to stay away from the cold and flu!! Hope everybody else is too!
Enjoy your holiday season....may it be filled with sunshine and love.
Happy Thoughts...

Hi! And Happy Thanksgiving to all of you. Yes, I'm back, trying to get over jet lag and catch up with things. Israel was great--the wedding was really nice, and I always have a good time seeing everyone. I also made a trip to Seville, Spain with my sister Katie in the middle of the Israel visit. My son, Rafi, is there again, so we went to see him and to see the city. We really liked it there. Beautiful city, and it's the center of Flamenco. Rafi took us to a few bars to see Flamenco music and dancing. Now my sister Amy is here with her youngest daughter and her daughter's friend. We'll be driving up to San Francisco on Friday for 3 nights. Thanksgiving is at Avi's sister's house this year. I'm so glad. I really don't have energy to cook and host while I'm still recovering from jet lag and entertaining guests!

Hi Lori, you must be back home and busy with family in USA stuff now. Take it slow and enjoy yourself. I hope your trip to Israel was terrific. The family is all well I hope.

I just put Thanksgiving brownies in the oven. Last night Dave said he wanted to make brownies. Took me by surprise as I was planning on the usual pies. So I figure I'll add that in to the mix of the goodies. There's sure to be plenty.

My kids and Dave's dad will be here tomorrow/tonight. Colin is bringing his girlfriend. That make 2 family events she has been to. I'm started to feel both hopeful and nervous! i know Colin really is so happy and I don't want anything to interfere with that. It's such a wonderful surprise to see him smiling all the time. He started back to college because of this girl. Yikes.

Got an email from Susan Birsky this week. Catching up with her now. It's been fun. We were college roomates for a couple of years. Now she's living back in queechee, VT.
Miss you - Patti

Karen, be in touch with me when the time gets closer and you know your plans for L.A. My sister and her daughter (and possibly her daughter's friend) will be visiting us at that time, so I don't know our plans yet. But I'd love to see you if we can work it out.

Yes, I usually cry at weddings, too. But I didn't cry at my own daughter's wedding! I think I was either too nervous walking up the aisle and standing under the "chupah" or too busy having fun dancing!

The rain stopped and now the sun is out. Sounds like you could use some sun, too, Kathi. I'm off to the kibbutz soon to see my parents and my other sister (Amy) and her family....

Lori, glad that you arrive safely at your sisters! Now for the funtime to begin. Keep us posted!
I am not liking this time change....it is just now beginning to get light and will be dark tonight at 5:00.....I still think I was a bear in another life and hibernated for the winter.....I would just asoon sleep though the snow and cold that will come much too soon.
Have a great Tuesday!

Hi everyone. I arrived in Israel yesterday. There were heavy rains, so the plane had to circle around a while before we could land. Now I'm at my sister Katie's house. I got a good night's sleep last night, so now I'm ready to go!

You're right, Kathi. I won't think about Thanksgiving now. Just about fun!

Halloween....I used to do the same thing...make costumes...now we don't get any trick-or-treaters...and the excitement is a hectic wild crazy day at school with 17 Kindergarteners. I am not sad that we don't get kids here! My favorite part was carving pumpkins. Oh well....it was pouring rain here, too.
Lori have a wonderful trip and fun at the wedding. Enjoy every moment and don't worry about Thanksgiving dinner...it'll all work out. Just have everyone bring something....that's what mother-in-laws should do! haha....Travel safely!

I don't know if I really like ANY holiday, so I'm worse than you, Karen! I guess I kind of like Thanksgiving, mainly cuz I love turkey and cranberry sauce. Usually we have that holiday at our house with Avi's family. His mother or sister makes the turkey, and I make the other stuff. This time Thanksgiving comes 4 days after I get back from Israel--and 2 days after my sister and her daughter arrive. So I'm already getting tense and not sure I want to do it. I don't know if I can handle jet lag, readapting, guests, and cooking all at once.

Sounds like you are a busy girl Lori! Glad that you are getting together with your family! and for a happy occasion.
We had our 2 1/2 year old granddaughter for 4 days this past week. What a fun time! You will have so much fun when your grandbaby comes! Being a Nana is so much easier then being a mother....I think anyway!
I hope your sons business is going well....economy seems to have slowed things down for my daughers...hopefully, it'll pick up quickly.
The weather has been very nice here lately...unfortunately, the rain is coming tomorrow. Leaves are not turning brown and falling from the trees. A sure sign of moving more towards winter.....

Hi, Patti. Yes, it's Amy's daughter who's getting married. I won't be surprised if her son gets married next year. He's been with his girlfriend a few years, and they seem headed toward marriage. Amy has 2 other kids besides those two--a son who has been traveling in Australia and New Zealand and is now coming back for the wedding, and a daughter who will be going into the army in December. Amy is coming for a visit with that daughter, Sharon, right after I get back. Sharon has never been here (the other 3 kids have) and wanted to come before she goes into the army. They were originally planning to come in January, but her army date got moved up from February to December.

By the way, Kathi, I checked your daughter's website. Looks like she's into the same things as my son, Rafi--music and T-shirts! He also has a line of T-shirts he's trying to sell on-line.

Hi Lori, so you're off to see your family in Israel again. Good for you. The time away is always busy as you've said but I think you love it.

I'm guessing the bride must be Amy's daughter. Is that right? I don't remember the last time there was a wedding in my family. A happy occasion.

Dave left this afternoon and will be back Monday morning. He's with his dad celebrating an 86th birthday.

I was hoping to do some fall gardening tomorrow but the weather is scheduled for hard rains. So I'm shooting for Sunday instead. I need to put tulip bulbs in. Today I pulled my dahlia bulbs.

Hi, Patti. It's nice to see you here again and to get your news--some good, some sad. I guess that's life. My sister-in-law is doing a little better, but it will take time. I'm glad I'll be having a break from all this soon--I'm going to Israel on Nov. 1st for my niece's wedding. I'll be there for 3 weeks. Then my sister and her youngest daughter will come here for a visit.

Karen, sorry I'm being so difficult about facebook! I look at it, but haven't felt like writing anything lately. I still prefer this more personal forum. But keep pestering me.... maybe it will work!

Hi Lori, I'm sorry to have been away for so long. I have gotten too caught up in facebook to be honest with you. It's much to compelling and I need to start be deliberate about staying away from it. I miss "talking" with you. I've just read some posts from Sept. and I'm very sorry to hear about the sadness in your family but joyful over the news of Danit's pregnancy. That's wonderful news.

In the week after my sister I spent time on the phone trying to take care her life only to find that I was not legally able to do so. Her 26 year son was left with all the responsibility and he isn't do much. I guess he has done what he is able to and thats the end of it. There has been no service and the funeral home won't allow me to go and pick up Lynne's ashes. I'm stymied.

I started working for LLBean this week. Last week was a week of training and now I am on the phones. It can be very frustrating but actually fun as well. It's only temporary through the holidays. Then I can go back to being a lady of leisure. I look forward to it.

patti

Thank you, thank you. I think I'm ready to be a grandmother. I just hope I have patience for the baby stage cuz I like it better when they start walking and talking.

I am so happy for all of you....it is so exciting! I just adore my little ones...who aren't so little anymore. Time seems to go by so fast lately...enjoy every moment, Grandma....or whatever special name you will be!

Hi, Kathi. Yes, it looks like we're all losing steam here--or maybe everyone's just busy with various things. I can't seem to get into Facebook. I feel too exposed there. I've been busy with family and friends. Avi and I are doing really well now, but it seems like there's so much suffering going on around us, either financial or relationship problems. But I do have some good news--I'm going to be a grandmother!!!! Danit is in her 13th week of pregnancy and is due April 19. We're all excited about that. I've known for a while, but she wanted me to wait until she's in her third month before I start announcing it everywhere. She feels well--just hungry and tired all the time. Besides that, we have a guest from Israel staying with us. She's my friend's daughter. She just finished studying jewelry design, and some of her designs were chosen to be part of L.A. Fashion week next week. So she's here to be part of it. She's a nice girl, so that makes it easier to be a good host.

Hi Everybody. I hope this post finds things going better for all.....I miss talking to you all!

Thanks, Kathi. Yesterday my sister-in-law's mother and brother arrived from Israel. I'm hoping that will help--though she was really mad when she heard they were coming. She doesn't want them to see her like this, but this isn't the time to think of "looking good."

Lori,
I'm sorry that your family is having such issues. It is draining to have no control over these
situations. I hope that she has a good doctor ..make sure you take care of you in the meantime!
Your friends are always a few minutes away...via, here or facebook chat. :)
Think Happy thoughts....................K

Hi. I'm still here. Just feeling kind of drained lately. Avi's brother's wife had to be hospitalized after going into a severe depression and threatening suicide. She's not really cooperating in the hospital--refusing to eat, not taking the medication she needs. We've been talking to Avi's brother a lot, giving him support, and today I'm going with him to visit her. Her brother called from Israel to ask if Avi or I could go see her so he could hear a second opinion about what's going on. It's been pretty sad and draining. She's down to 70 pounds. Besides that, our close friends are headed towards divorce and all the pain and anger are coming out. So right now it just feels like everyone is suffering... Sorry I'm so glum right now.

Where or where is everybody???? Lori, are you away again??? I know that facebook has seen lots of us there, which is actually quite nice because we can actually "talk" to each other. It is really quite simple to do.
I know that Karen is busy remodeling her kitchen...wish it was mine.
I am busy in Kindergarten....that basically says it all...it is a very challenging year so far. The construction is ongoing...the superintendent and school board are looking for ways to cut the budget....and always go for the obvious choices of teaching and para positions, it is never suggested that they are top administration heavy or that they could renegiate their contracts...our support staff union is in negiations....we are sharing a principal between Elm and Union, which are both under construction. and crazy to think that one person can do it all...new rules, new laws....more children just not ready...anyways, enough about that.
I did go apple picking and make a applie pie!
Lets hear from everybody!! If not here, go to facebook...Springfield High School 1972 Vermont

Kathi, we'll be rooting for you next year. You have to represent all of us "old ladies"!

Its hard to watch and help when people are suffering..no matter what the circumstances....

I walked in a 10K race yesterday at the National Guard Camp up in Colchester. It is called Vermont Remembers Race. Used to raise $ for the Memorial that they have there. It is very well put on...all are welcome..with a big BBQ afterwards...with plenty to do for the kids. Next year we are going to make it a team event...in honor of my brother. My nephew who is now 11 thinks that I am an old lady and could never beat him....I am going to make it a goal for next year to make him eat those words!!! We'll see! My body is tired and sore today!

I hope that everything gets better for all my friends out here!
The weekend goes much too fast now that I am back at school!
Happy Thoughts..............

Sounds like everyone's pretty busy. I've been busy in a marathon of talking in the past week. Our friends are going through a crisis in their marriage, and we've been spending a lot of time talking to them (separately) and trying to help in whatever way we can. They both say they want a divorce, but it still seems, to me, that there's a lot of love buried under all that hurt and anger. I also spent about 4 hours talking to my sister-in-law (Avi's brother's wife) who is in a pretty serious depression, mainly blaming herself for the financial mess they're in, but it's more than just a financial matter. We gave them a number of a therapist, so hopefully they'll go and she'll be able to help them. It's hard to see so much suffering around me.

Pat, sending you some warm wishes, too! Its hard watching our loved ones suffer.

I am going to Milton on Saturday to walk in The Rememberance walk with the National Guard. It raises money for The memorial that they have erected at Camp Johnson for the Guard members killed in war. This is the 3rd year that it has been going on. It is a 10K..walk/run. I will be walking with my sister-in-law. Its nice to do this together...hopefully, we won't be the last ones to finish!
This is our second week of back to school...and I am exhausted! For some reason, it has been very hard to get back into the routine..we have a new school building, which is really nice....more construction...new changes...new bonds coming due so they have to cut $2 million from the budget...hummmm, job cuts? Seems very stressful right now....
Hope things are going well for everyone else!! Happy Thoughts.............

So sad. Sorry she's suffering like that.

Heading to Rutland sunday morning to visit with Lynne. I had a chance to speak with her Dr this morning and they told me she has end stage restrictive lung disease. They weren't really sure she understood the diagnosis. The result of her illness yes, but not the actual diagnosis. I think they're right. I don't think it will be long now before she passes away. I can hear the difficulty in her voice as she struggles to breath and to converse. phone calls have become very very difficult. I wish I lived closer.

Oh, sorry to hear all that, Patti. Doesn't sound good. Even though she feels like being alone, she probably appreciates your visits.

We met Elena for the first time this week. She's the girl our son Rafi met when he was in Spain last March. She's been visiting him here in L.A., but will be going back to Spain on Monday. We liked her. She's really friendly, down-to-earth, easy to talk to. He's been having fun with her, but he still seems a little traumatized from his divorce from Kristine--not really ready for a serious commitment, I think.

Hi Lori, no it's not at all nosey of you. She has only 15 % lung function left and chronic heart disease. She is grossly overweight and her body just can't take it anymore. She has hospice people coming in and other visiting nurse types but mostly she just wants to be left alone.

Patti, can I ask what Lynn is ill with? (Or am I being too nosey?). Whatever it is, I'm sorry to hear she's so ill. Must be hard on you, too. Is Richard a friend of hers? My sister used to complain that I ask too many questions, so don't feel you have to answer anything.

Happy Birthday again, Karen! This time I got it on the right day.

What about Kim Stalter? Hi Kim whichever Kim you are.

Hello Kim when did you appear? I didn't notice yesterday. Welcome and feel free to join in.

Thanks for talking to Richard Deb that's a load off my mind. Lynne is living alone now in Rutland. Matt lives in Las Vegas. She has chosen to spend her final time at her apartment instead of a nursing home as her physician and hospice have encouraged her to do. I'll be going back over Labor Day Weekend.

Happy Birthday Karen!!!! (Fri.) Pat, We'll be calling Richard tonight and will let him know about Lynne. They used to chat occ. but I don't know the last time. I'm sooo sorry she's so ill. Life sure hasn't been easy for her. I'm glad she has her son close by and of course you. It must be so difficult. My prayers are with you all.

Let's see Wed,Th, FRIDAY!

Thanks for the hint, Kathi. I'm not sure what the actual day is, but I know it's sometime this week, so have a VERY HAPPY BIRTHDAY, Karen!!!! I hope you get everything you wish for. So what if you're older? We're like wine, right? We improve with age.

Heck I'd like to go to the Crayola Factory. That would be a blast!

Hi Everybody,
Can you believe that the summer is almost over???? I had to go to Opening Day for Staff today...our building looks great...with more construction outside our windows again...but...the sound proofing is a little better then the trailers! Its really nice to have a nice big space again...it'll be wild and crazy but I think it'll be a good year....here's hoping anyways. Our principal feels parents should be taking more responsibility on their childrens actions...what a concept! So, I think it'll work out well having "new" leadership.
I have to tell you that I just love being a Nana!! And I am sure you will all have that opportunity sometime! Best if your children are ready....not just you! I have talked to mine on the phone...with them telling me their vacation highlights...They went to the Crayola Factory in Pennyslvania where my middle granddaughter was in ART Heaven. Wish I had a scanner that worked with this laptop to share the book she made me...it is so cute. She was giving me lessons on drawing...and asking if I wanted to draw the straight line....or the rectangle. It was so sweet.
My oldest one called to tell me he lost another tooth...and the littlest one calls and says, Hi Nana over and over and Papa Home??? Just makes my heart melt.
Somebody has a birthday this week!!!! Wonder who........KS....and its not me!

Hi Debbie. It's nice to hear your news on the blog. You and Kathi definitely make it sound fun to have grandchildren. I love little kids. I'm just not so crazy about the baby stage--but when they start walking and talking, they're so cute! Karen, it might happen sooner than you think! (All your sons have girlfriends, don't they?!) My kids seem to have more and more friends who are getting married now and also some who are having or have had kids--although they still have a lot of single friends, too. I'm going back to Israel in November for my sister's daughter's wedding. I'm excited about that.

Hi Deb thanks for the good thoughts. I'm looking forward to starting work at Beans. I'm sure it'll be fun from what I hear from others who work there. In the meantime I'm thoroughly enjoying having my summer time. We'll still travel over to NH to the campground a few more times before leaving for good Columbus Day. After that we'll see our "summer friends" for New Years Eve.

I wonder if you can do me a favor. Lynne is very ill and wants to talk with Richard. I'm not sure if she's talked to him about her illness, I think she might have but hasn't heard from him since. If you talk with him would you please ask him to phone her? Thanks so much.

Welcome back Lori and Karen. I can't believe how much you guys get around. Hello Pat and Kathi, and anyone else I may have missed. As you know I'm not big on these sites but will post occasionally.
Seems like summer just started and school is back, Kathi you said this week?
I agree being a grandparent is the best. We had Lily for a sleepover Fri. and will have Lindsey my 20 mo old this Sat. Lindsey is going to have a sibling sometime in March. Boy the family grows fast.
We're enjoying our new deck and had my office summer party here yesterday in spite of the rain, which shortened the afternoon. So plans for chipping golf, horseshoes and croquet were abandoned. We did get to Maine for a couple of nights which was fun, and got to have my lobster dinner.We've only gotten the canoe out once so far. Summer is over cuz bowling starts next Mon.
Did Karen V. ever get home this summer?
Pat, good luck with your job when it does start. Are you OK with being at home for now?

I know just what you mean Karen. Dave and I have been his parents caretakers for many years. there are 2 daughters that are not particularly involved. Before she passed away a couple of years ago Dave's mom suffered from such confusion it was so troubling for her and for us. we spend as much time with his dad nowas we can and we're much closer physically now so that's been easier. He's 85 and dave fears his time is limited. We agreed many years ago to take care of our parents at what ever point that came. It would be so much easier if the girls would help though.

Oops, sorry. That's a sensitive subject, I guess. Anyway, I'm impressed at how much YOU do.

Kathi, do you ever get down to N.Y. to visit your daughter there?

Hi...it is early here. Everyone is sleeping...shhhhh, its quiet and I like that.
My daughter and son-in-law from NYC are visiting for the weekend. It is nice, they haven't had time to come up all summer. The guys are doing boy things today, while Suzanne and I and a couple of her HS friends are driving to St. Albans for a bridal shower. She says she feels like in HS with her Mom driving them around. I get to be the chauffeur. It should be fun....just hope it doesn't rain the entire trip up. Yesterday, we had spells of turential downpours inbetween periods of sunshine and high humidity.
Good job Lori finding the class site....always knew you could do it.
Karen, I hope you got home safely...It is understandably a stressful time taking care of someone you love. I commend you for doing it. I wish it had worked out for me to come down with you...maybe sometime! Although, we have to put a new roof on our house, so that is probably my fun $ used up.
School starts for me on Tuesday. I am in the mood of vacation but once there will be fine. I look forward to the new challenges and changes of this year. I'll keep you posted!
Have a good day everybody....think we need to keep moving this ahead!

Yes, it's scary what happens when the mind goes. My parents saw my grandmother succumb to Alzheimer's and don't want to end up like that. My father said to give him a push out the window if he becomes like that! There's nothing really to do about it except accept it, I guess. By the way, does Lisa also take a turn staying with their mother? If you talk to her, say hello from me. I always remember a trip we took together to go see Hampshire College.

Hi, Patti. Karen, I did it!

Hi Lori

Yes, you're right. A grandchild is just what I'd like right now!

I can't seem to remember how to get to the class page on facebook. What do I type in? I tried different combinations, but nothing worked.

Thanks, Patti. That's good that you're happy in your new home and town. It turned out to be the right decision for you. I'm getting back into things, trying to figure out what I want to add to my life here. Maybe some kind of Big Sister volunteer job? I like little kids. We'll see.... Now I'm off to Curves to try to repair the damage of eating too much in Israel!

Welcome back Lori its wonderful to hear from you again. So glad that once again you saw all the folks you love to see. I hope your family are all well.

I wonder what the trick is to having both the social and private life you seek? There must be a way to make this happen.

I'm settling in here in Hampden. I decided I like it quite a bit. It's a tiny hamlet with not much of anything going on but we are enjoying our home particularly with the changes we've made. It's becoming more and more "ours".

I've been over to VT a couple of times. Just to see my sister Lynne who is very ill. I spend a few hours with her and then I go back to NH. It's been tough.

I'm starting work at LLBean in Customer Service in early Oct. It's a seasonal position. Hopefully one that will take me through much of the winter. I do so like having the summer time off.

Once again, welcome home Lori!

Hi everyone. I got back from Israel yesterday. I landed at 6 a.m. and was so tired, I ended up sleeping most of the day. Then I couldn't sleep at night. So today I didn't let myself take a nap because I want to be able to sleep at night. I spent the day unpacking, catching up on mail and bills, and just finished catching up on the blog. I had a good time in Israel as usual. It's always good to spend time with my family and friends--though it does get tiring after a while cuz I'm constantly driving from one place to another to see people. I don't have much time to myself there. I think I need more balance in my life. In L.A. I have plenty of time to myself (for my writing, etc.), but not enough social life, and in Israel, it's the opposite--lots of people to see, but no time to myself. Oh well, at least I get recharged there. I love going to the beach there--the Mediterranean is nice and warm. It sounds like all of you have been having busy summers, too.

yooohooo, Anyone here?

I would love to be able to go with you Karen, but it just won't work for me now. Maybe next time!
I feel like this summer is just flying by....Next week is my only "free" week the whole summer...after that there are different appointments...getting ready for school....all that stuff.. I really meant to get lots done but haven't done that either!
We had so much rain last night that it washed a big gully down the garden...we have to go cover up roots to the pumpkins. Beautiful day today.

Drama, drama, drama on the blog....I hope this doesn't make us all loose our friend connections!

Read that Mrs. Goodrum (Don's mother) has passed. I have fond memories of her coming into our Vegetable Stand. My oldest was just little and would stand on the bench and sing to her. It was very sweet. A lovely lady. My condolenses to the Goodrum family.

Weather is finally hot here in Springfield. It was in the 80s...and no rain for 2 days..imagine.
There is a really nice breeze coming through my windows right now...first time I have had all of the opened all summer.

My grandchildren are back home and it is quiet here! I actually cleaned my house!!! and it is still the same...We had a great time during their visit and yesterday at the Lake Compounce Amusement and waterpark in CT yesterday...My NYC daughter and her husband came up for the day, too!
Hope all is well with everyone! Lori, when are you coming home?

Below is a message sent to me this morning by the classcreate webite people. I'm not planning to be using the other site. But I share this information with you all for what it's worth.
Pat
I am glad that you looked over some of our website and enjoyed it.
Some parts of the site are protected and not available for general viewing unless one has joined the site. Unfortunately, I see that you did not join the site. I will leave your name on the Guest list until Saturday as in my earlier e-mail to you.

As you request in the e-mail, I will remove the link to your 'blog'.
Truly, we have no interest in the 'blog'. Just a thought, but it might better serve you and your friends to rename your site for what it is. This would help to avoid future confusion by all and if desired, allow your classmates to put up a website for your class using the SHS title - just a thought, Pat.

Please let me know when your class has an official website. It would be a nice touch for a 1ckmom!

Just a quick question, are you related to Francis Mahoney, class of 1957?

Thanks with a smile,

Kay

Hi folks, you might notice the link to another site for SHS classes has been removed from our desktop. However you may be interested to know that the link to this blog site is in place on the site Classcreator.com. So you can't go there from here but you can come here from there. It's an interesting site full of all kinds of information. The information below was sent to my email address this afternoon. It came from someone named Kathleen Yoxtheimer Shelton. And I thought Patricia Smith Mahoney was a mouthful.

Springfield High School - Vermont Class Of 1960

The Springfield High School - Vermont Class Of 1960 has a web site located at http://www.classcreator.com/Springfield-VT-1960.

You have been invited by a fellow classmate. Please join us and reunite with your Classmates!

That's such a sweet picture Karen!

I just applied to LLBean for a position as a Customer Service Representative. Here's hoping..........

Camp Nana sounds fabulous! Dave and I returned home to Hampden this afternoon. To some more rain unfortunately for the next several days. Guess I'll do the laundry and other inside tasks. Dave is going back into work tomorrow.
We visited with Lynne and Matt for about 3 hours earlier this week. Matt has returned to Los Vegas but plans to come back in a couple of months. It was hard to sit with Lynne in her apartment knowing that it isn't likely that she'll ever leave it again. Her spirits are pretty good and I have her set up on Facebook. She likes that. I don't like that she is alone, but it's what she wants.
We are'nt going back to camp this weekend and staying home sounds good to me. Strange but its more relaxing.
Hello to you all wherever you are..................

Summertime is busy for all of us....
I am having Nana Camp for 2 of my grandchildren...I think I might have to start hiring some staff!! I can certainly say that as enjoyable as it is to have them, I am equally tired!!
I hope that everybody else is having a great time...where are you all?

Hi...I had a great time getting together with a bunch of friends on Saturday night. We met at McKinley's that opened for the first time since the big fire. Linda Hayes, Margaret Ambrose, Deb and Ronnie Young, Karen Millay, Joanne Gordon, Rick and Dianne Ingalls, Janice Hinkley, Linda Labonte, Pam Wearing were all among the funsters. (Of course, I didn't put married names or spouses, that were with a few) I apologize if I forgot anyone..we had a fun time chatting and catching up on news.
Patti, I hope you are feeling better...we are all still hoping to get together this summer, somewhere!
Lori, have a wonderful trip! Travel safe and enjoy your family visit...
Happy Thoughts to all......................

Oh, that doesn't sound good! Hope it's getting better, though.

I have severe lumbar strain. I had been bothered by some low back pain for a couple of days and then while doing some gardening really felt the need to take a break and rest it. Then when I got up it was really painful. Not being the brightest bulb in the box, I went back to work anyway, figuring I'd just work it out. Long story short, I fell twice (inside luckily) and had to be taken by ambulance to the hospital. I was on the bathroom floor when it arrived. So embarassing.

I'd love to hear how the alumni weekend went for everyone.

What happened to your back, Patti? Hope you're okay! I'm in my usual pre-flight stress, trying to finish everything that needs taking care of before we fly on June 30th!

I hope all of you back in VT for Alumni Weekend had a great time. Did the rain hold off? Sure hope so. Enjoy your time together.

Ditto from me, what Lori said. With my back injury I can't go anywhere for a week or so. But I hope you all have a wonderful time at your reunion.

I'm getting jealous that I won't be able to be there with all of you! I'll be there "in spirit," as they say. Have fun.

I just spoke with Janice. Plans are to meet at McKinley's at 6:30. They have food there. The band doesn't start at KJ's til 9. So we can get started at McK's and be able to hear each other before KJ's. Sounds like a progressive party to me, huh?
She will call Kathy Westney. I'll make a few more calls tonite.
Karen, you'll post on facebook? I don't always get where I'm trying to go there.

I'll call KJ's tomorrow to make sure ist's not a private party going on. Ron said McKinley's is supposed to be open again this weekend. I'll try to find out more. All are welcome to come to our home in the afternoon. KJ's maybe 7ish?
I'll be near the plaza with my mom and brother for the parade. There supposed to be things going on at Riverside after the parade so that may be another meeting place.
I'll try to give more of an update Wed. night.

Karen, that is fine. Remember about it being one way up through town...if you go to the bank parking lot you will have to go all around by the plaza....My little ones will be here for the parade, too....so not sure where we will go to see it...we used to Park on Pearl Street and walk across the Fellows Bridge and watch it on River St...but you can't use that bridge anymore...

I am finally done school...spent today helping to move the office stuff into the new building...we are all trying to work together to get things back together. Our new building is going to be awesome....so its kind of fun to work on getting it together. I am done with working in the dust for the rest of the summer. (Jutst the dust in my own house!)
I am not sure what everyone wants to do getting together...not too many places in town that aren't already booked...it'll be fun to see everyone who can show up!
Well, I need to go and do some grocery shopping...company coming on Thursday.

I haven't heard much action here lately. Where is everyone? Alumni weekend is this weekend. Is anyone planning to be around? I'll make a few calls to Linda and Janice and if I run into anyone in town I'll pass on the word. I did see Mike Graham on Sat. but he'll be out of town then. Let me know what I can do to get things going.
This summer is already going by way too quickly. We have no big plans for vacation but will probably take a few short trips.
Kathi, it must be a nice break with school finally over. Enjoy the grandkids.

Kathi, I agree it would be great to get together as many of us alumni weekend as possible. I think KJ's has a couple of bands that Sat. if I'm not mistaken. We can always have a gathering here at our place if anyone cares to.
Karen,it'll be good to see you again.
Pat, will you be able to make it? Lori, you're crossing the pond again? It's good your faimily is so close, yet so far. Hope you have a good trip.
I haven't tried facebook for a while, but will check it out.
Tomorrow I take my mom to visit my grandmother (my Dad's step-mom) She turns 99 on Tues. It's a very small nursing home but she is quite comfortable there. It'll get mom out of town at least for a bit.

We're leaving June 30--Avi, me, Danit, Darren, and Rafi. Omer is meeting us in Israel. He's in Guatemala at the moment. We're having a family reunion in Israel with all of my family. We'll all be there except one of my sister Amy's sons, who is in Australia right now. Omer and I are staying longer than the others. I'll be back in L.A. on Aug. 9. Anyway, I'll check out Facebook again....

I am finding FB easier to get to...and more people to talk to. Its easy because you can just type a line or two ...
I always check in here to see who has written..lately, I haven't come up with much to talk about...school, construction and packing boxes to get ready to move...plus have Kindergarten...its been so distracting...and pretty boring. I am so ready for this year to be over...one more week with kids and then I think we are getting one paid day for moving. Then I have a few days off..by myself before my kids are coming to visit...I think its going to be Nana Camp for a lot of the summer!
I am helping our art teacher put together a huge puzzle mural that the kids at Park Street have done. We went and found old pictures of Park Street School to put onto that mural. It is really fun to read about old Springfield.
Lori, keep trying facebook...you can directly to us all! When are you leaving for your trip???

Hi Lori, well you may be right. I use FB everyday and I know that Kathi and Karen do also. I don't know that they mean to use that instead but I don't know what's going to happen here. I still feel both programs have their benefits. The only place I see you and Debbie is here. I haven't seen Richard anywhere in months traveling, incommunicado I don't know. There aren't more people talking in FB from the class Karen V is there ever so often but its rare. Several are signed up as members but they don't use it any more than they did/do here.

Yes, that must be hard to go into a class you don't really know to teach something you're not really prepared for!

Have you all been hanging out more on Facebook? I get the feeling that that's where all the action is, and I'm still resisting it for some reason. Don't know what's wrong with me...

Well it takes some getting used to and some getting over. I still have times of insecurity, sometimes it depends on what I'm talking about and how much prep time I've taken. The idea of substitute teaching is horrifying as one is never really prepared.

Yes, I don't know why that fear of public speaking is so intense, but it definitely is. You're probably okay with it, though, aren't you?--if you were a teacher for all those years and had to stand up and talk in front of a class.

Congratulations Lori on getting through the reading intact! I'm glad you felt you did well. Public speaking is the #1 fear of adults and so add to that reading your own work and YIKES.

Sounds like your get-together is going to work out. Have fun!

Well, I got through the poetry reading last night--without turning red, losing my voice, or fainting! Actually, it went okay. I liked hearing the other poets read their work. Some were really good. One of them was an Arabic woman who was born in Syria and grew up in Lebanon. She asked me if I want to join a group she's in with Moslem and Jewish women who get together to talk and listen to each other. I might try it. Sounds interesting to me, and I think acceptance and tolerance are really important. It was a nice sort of "New Age" kind of evening, but I think it went on a little too long. People can't really listen to poetry for more than an hour, and this went on for about 3 hours. In the first part, 9 of us poets read, then there was an intermission, and then one poet read while an electric cello player played in the background. The music was beautiful, but that should have been saved for a different evening. Oh well...

I think we should get together! Lets consider this a open invite to all who want to join us...we'll have to figure out where...and when...we could even watch the parade together! hahah...

I just looked it up and yes, that's Alumni Weekend. Friday the 26th. So what if anything can we do? I'm driving over to Calumet the 3rd of July and Dave and I are staying there that week.

I'll find that poem Lori and read it again thinking of you reading it aloud before your peers.

Thanks for all the support! Patti, the poem is "The Blue Embrace." It's in my book, "In the Mood for Orange," which I think you have.

That will be nice if you can organize a mini reunion. I'll miss this one, but I hope I'll make it to another one.

June 25, I really would love to do that!

Lori, that is great! Stand up and be proud...be confident...you'll do fine!
I am so ready for school to be over this year! It'll be a long 3 weeks, I am sure! I just hope it doesn't rain most of the week, like it is predicted to....plus we have to have our classroom packed up and ready to move...again...hopefully for the last time ever! We did get to see the inside of the building the other day. Our room will be great when finished!! Can't wait....We have 4 people retiring in our building this year...our principal, guidance person, the special ed teacher and a 1st grade teacher...big retirement open house at school next week...we have to make cupcakes or cookies to bring in...anybody want to make 2 dozen cupcakes...One day next week, we go to Cavendish for a picnic at my teachers house...so it'll be a busy 3 weeks.
Anyone want to get together ....Karen will be in town June 25th week...let me know!

That's all really great news Lori. You must be very proud of Rafi. It's wonderful that you're going to take that plunge. Will you share your poem with us? How wonderful that you're going to do this. It's very brave.

Rafi's band played at a club in Hollywood on Friday night, so Avi and I went to see them. They've been busy rehearsing and recording all year, but this was their first performance in a long time. Maybe they'll get back into it now. We thought they played really well--good energy, nice beat--but something was wrong with the sound system at that place. It was hard to understand what the singer was saying or singing. But despite all that, people seemed to be having fun and I think they could tell the band was good even though the sound was bad. There were about 350 people there.

I'm feeling kind of nervous cuz I'm going to be reading one of my poems in a poetry reading next Saturday, June 6. I don't know how many people will be there. It's only 1 poem, and hopefully it will go well, but I'm still nervous! I feel like I have to make the plunge, though. It's now or never. I can't keep avoiding these things! The reading is being organized by the editor of the Sisters Singing anthology. Other L.A. poets who have poems in that anthology will be reading, too.

Our house in P.I. has finally sold. I don't know for how much but I've heard that there were a couple of families bidding on it. Like what we're doing here I imagine whoever is going to live there will make many changes. Make it their own. Its the way of the world.

I've had some some nice comments from folks back there on facebook.


Dave has gone down to visit with his Dad. He's worried about him. Time is marching on for that old fella I'm afraid. But God willing there will be many years more for Dave and jack.

I'll post the photos I have of our construction work so far.

The boys name was/is Ryan Casey McGhee...not someone that I knew in person or his parents.
There is a candlelight memorial service tomorrow night in town, that I am trying to work myself up into going, and he will be buried at Arlington National Cemetery later. I am just so tired of these needless deaths and getting depressed over them....

Kathi, what's the name of the guy from Springfield who was killed? Do we know him?

Patti, sounds like you're adjusting really well to your new home and town--even thinking about looking for a job at the school there. Maybe you're more adaptable than you thought!

Yippee I'm back in! for quite some time I've been unable to access any google sites and have finally gotten my sign in and password reset.

Hope you had a good birthday last weekend Ron. I'm guess that it was last Saturday not this Saturday.

Its good to be home and all the contractor stuff is in full swing. The soon they got started the sooner it will be done. And we'll be broke. Then we can start living on our actual income and not think about what "was" in the bank. Reality at last. HaHa. Hopefully I'll be able to get a job this fall at one of the schools in the area.

Hope everyone's well - take good care of one another!!

Its raining here....certainly made subbing and inside recess such a joy....sigh...Karen, send that sunshine here!!!
I had a late birthday dinner with my 4 close school friends last night...its like the day never ends this year...lol....she made this chocolate lava cake and homemade vanilla/chocolate ice cream...oh my god...it was so good....

I know I get on my soapbox sometimes about Supporting our Troops....and their families.
There is yet another Springfield native that has become a fallen hero in this war. He was 21 years old....moved when he was in 9th grade down south to VA...on his 4th tour of duty...first one in Iraq...and was killed 2 weeks ago. They are planning a candlelight memorial on Friday night at the Memorial site on River Street...it really breaks my heart. I need to work myself up to going to this....thanks for listening, my friends....

We will do that, Kathi.

Memorial Day this year marks the 5th anniversary of my brothers death in Iraq. Please take a moment tomorrow to respect all our Military who have served and are now serving. There will be a national moment of silence at 3pm...Please take this time to send Happy Thoughts to those men and women serving our country and those who have given the ultimate sacrifice...they live on in our hearts forever. Thank you.

Hi everyone! Well we've had rain, sun, and beach but sadly, no cabana boy! Evidently there is a season for that and I'm not in it. Oh well. I'm going to enjoy the sun today while it lasts and possibly for the last time here on our trip. Storms are scheduled starting later today and each day but that's not unusal. An afternoon rain is one thing but the thunder and lightening I'm hearing about will keep me in. Perhaps a peducre will made me feel better. I'll give that some thought once the clouds open up. In the meantime I'm going to go on the intercostal waterways and take a tour.

Honestly I'm looking forward to being home and getting started on our contruction projects. We have budgeted certain monies for this and need to get it spent before we do something rash and don't have it available.

Here I am with my Birthday Granddaughter.
Isn't she the sweetest!!

Karen, have a good time in Florida, I hope Pat's enjoying herself. Must be nice to have a cabana boy. My sister and I had grand ideas of such a time and met in StPete for her 50th Bday 2 years ago. We got on the empty beach and were surrounded by dead fish. Needless to say no cabana's for us. We did enjoy the weekend tho.
Happy Birthday Kathi. Enjoy the day!! Ron's is Sat. and we'll be sure to have choc. cake. The long weekend sounds like it will be a good one. Temps in the 70's.
Have a good weekend all.

I knew it would be challenging to get us together but I'm still hopeful. Your summer in Israel should be restful for you. Seems like you are usually on the run tring to catch everyone when you're there. I'm glad you'll have a good long visit.

Yes, to beachin' it! I plan to hand out the cocktail flag and signal my cabana boy regularly. Enjoy your trip Karen.

I won't be able to make it to your camp this summer, Patti. We're leaving for Israel on June 30. Avi and Danit, Darren, and Rafi will be staying for 2 and a half weeks, but I'll be there longer--until Aug. 8. Omer is in Nicaragua now, but he'll be meeting us in Israel this summer. He'll stay longer than the others. Anyway, I won't be able to travel to both Israel and Vermont this summer, so Vermont will have to wait until another time. Sorry it won't work for me this time. I hope you manage to get a few people together at least.

Kathi, is your birthday May 19th? I know it's May, but I don't remember the exact date. Anyway, whichever day it is, I wish you a VERY HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!! Enjoy it!

Hi ladies, I'm trying to catch up boy there's a lot of posts to read which is wonderful!

Lori did I miss your birthday? So sorry, I hope it was a pip. I have a sneaking suspicion that Kathi might be coming up too. It's about time all you caught up with me. When I was in H.S. It was fun being the oldest, since I certainly was the smallest. Now, well let's just say I still hold one of those titles!!!

So let's talk about this summer!! I was serious when I said I wanted to get you girls to come over to NH and spend time at my campground. Susan has signed on and I wish as many of you as possibly can - will do so as well. Janice are you listening?? I haven't picked a weekend because I want to find out when you can or if you can/will come over. The trailer is already on site and waiting. Karens S and V I know it may impossible for you but please know I really want to see you.

It thrills and amazing me and everyone I tell (I tell people all the time) that we are still in touch and loving it. We are a very lucky group of women.

Dave and I leave for a week in Fort Lauderdale this coming Monday a.m. though he will be working most of the time, we'll have our late afternoons and evenings so it will be fun. While we're away our roof will be done. We're really trusting our contractor.

Happy planting everyone........-Patti

Hi Everybody....glad we all had a great Mother's day....I think we should celebrate every day!!!
Neil and I were here alone...my kids got together and sent me a big bucket of perinnals...lots of different kinds..I still have to read all the tags to know where to plant, how much sun, etc....just love the gift that just keeps giving! They all called and Chloe (my littlest grandbaby) called to sing her Happy Mother's Day song....she is almost 2....she gets on the phone and starts whispering..."happy, happy, happy, happy....." I guess there are more words but that was the one she liked the best. It was quite funny.
I treated myself (thanks to a gift certificate from Christmas) to a pedicure tonight. It was heavenly and felt so good. Unfortunately, I could learn to love all those pampering things....maybe in my next life!!
I wonder who is going to have the big one with the initials KS, thanks Karen Stover...you are just tooooooo cute. Trying to figure how to celebrate with my daughter and Chloe...I am thinking of taking Tuesday off from school and meeting them part way to celebrate together...we'll see!
We got rid of all that wood from the front yard. Neil put a "free wood" sign out and it was gone in 2 days! Great for us...as we would have had to rent a wood splitter to get rid of it...some of those pieces weighed 200 pounds....

My son Omer is still traveling, but the other 2, Danit and Rafi, came over on Mother's Day. Rafi brought me some Mrs. Field's chocolate chip cookies--guess he knows I prefer cookies to flowers! They thought we'd watch a movie together, but we ended up watching the special that was on TV about Alzheimer's. Pretty depressing, but really well done and interesting, I thought. Did any of you see it? Not the usual Mother's Day activity! Well, at least we were together! It's a 4-part program, so that was just the first part.

Debbie, the fires were near Santa Barbara, which is about an hour and a half from us, so we weren't in any danger. But my niece and her boyfriend were driving back from San Francisco and had to take a detour when they got near Santa Barbara.

Happy Mother's Day to all my friends!
Nice hearing what wonderful days you have had. Everyone celebrates the same day in different ways...My kids sent me the biggest bucket of perinnals...now to plant. Neil took me out to dinner, we went to West Lebanon to Koto's Steakhouse. It was nice.
Neil put a sign out front on our front yard saying "Free Wood"...needless to say, all the wood is now gone off the lawn...now to cut the stump back and clean up the sawdust and fill in holes....
I am trying to make a bunch of birthday cards for next week. My youngest granddaughter will turn 2...I am making this fold down cupcake book...it has 5 pages each adding more to the cupcake ending with the whole cupcake with two candles....I need to cover all the pages, add photos...my printer is giving me a hard time....of course....and put embellishments on it...hopefully, I will finish in a couple of nights...I have a feeling they might come up this next weekend...the kids want to know when they can come back to Nana and Papa's house to stay...lol.
Again, Happy Mother's Day to all ............

Happy Mother's Day to all, Thanks Kathi for getting me back on track with the address. I lost all of them when my phone Co. did and update, then I finally switched to highspeed. I know I'm a little slow on the draw.
I had the best mothers day ever. We celebrated Sat. My sister is home from Ark. until this next Tues. so I've had the week off. All 3 of my girls and 2 spouses , my 2 granddaughters, Val and my Mom and of course Ron, were all here. The guys planted 2 crabapple trees for me and then today a climbing rose. We had steaks and hotdogs on the grill. I love it when my girls are all together. It happens only 1 or 2 times a year. We all just love it when my sister comes. She's always been a very special auntie. We've got some great pictures, and sometime I'll try to post some.
Karen, I like your bucket list. This time of year must be very exciting with the derby and all.
Pat, I feel your pain. I've redone each room in my old house at least 2-3 times since we've been here (30 years). I had that problem with one room and I ended up painting over the wallpaper on 2 walls cuz I was so sick of the scraping. It didn't turn out so good. Good Luck.
Lori, I hope the wildfires aren't near you.
Where have the other bloggers all gone?
Any more word on if we'll try to get together this summer?

Mother's Day comes not that long after my birthday, so I always feel like I've already celebrated it and that I don't need more cards and presents--yet.

Yes, I think the not sized is the problem. I have all the usual tools but it's a struggle. I'll be wicked glad to get it done.
Janice I echo Karen's birthday wishes! I don't think you're looking at Facebook anymore are you??
Dave and I start a ballroom dance class tonight. We leave for Fort Lauderdale Tuesday of next week so we'll miss the second class. Oh well. I think I can miss class for days in the sun! Nothing but rain here..................All of New England I think.

I've heard that one too! I look forward to having company though after we fix things up and make it more of ours. I've been working hard at peeling off this darn wallpaper border. It's wicked hard to get off. We've painted one small room any have a lot more to go.

Karen, have you heard the saying, "Guests and fish stink after 3 days"?! Actually, it's been pretty easy this time cuz they rented a car, so they're not dependent on us to take them around. Right now they're in Las Vegas for 2 nights. Then they're coming back for a day and then going to San Francisco for 2 nights. And they're so enthusiastic about everything they've been seeing here, so that makes it easier, too. We almost discouraged them from going to Universal Studios. It seems boring to us cuz we've been there so much, but they really liked it!

Can I borrow your grandchildren, Kathi, until I have some of my own? They're so cute!

Here are a few Nana moments.
Sorry!!!

We are back from CT after returning the Grandchildren back to their rightful owners!
I had such a great time (with a few exceptions) with the kids. The youngest who is almost 2 is so funny. She has many many facial expressions ...and definitely knows what she wants. She is very quiet, laid back. She slept through the night...something she doesn't do at home....Little Miss Princess (Camille) will sit for hours doing "art projects"...she is a girly girl who likes to play in the dirt. The oldest one , Caleb, is all boy, jumping, running, moving even while trying to sit still...he has the red head temperment, too. Kids always act differently when their parents aren't around!!
Back to reality tomorrow...I think it'll be a long week!

I really like the card, too. He's definitely talented!

Kathi, looks like you have a lot of wood for your fireplace now!

My niece, Galit, and her boyfriend, Sammy, just arrived from Israel. They'll be visiting us until May 12, and then they'll go to N.Y. for a few days and Vermont for a few days. They've been together a few years, and he just proposed to her before they came. We were all happy about that. He's a really nice guy. This is his first time in the U.S. He's been to places like Thailand, Viet Nam, Guatemala, Brazil, etc., but never the U.S.

Here is the tree in my front yard....The electric company
is trimming limbs and decided that the tree was rotten through the core of it...and this is what it
looks like tonight. It is pretty sad...but it saved us lots of $ not having to pay to take it down ourselves.
Hope all is going well with all of you!!

I'm still going 3 times a week, though I have to drag myself there sometimes. It's not like I'm dying to exercise. Once I get there and hear the music, I get into it again.

Hi Lori, I joined the local Curves here n Hampden last week. They are running a 30 day special so I didn't have to commit for a long time. I'm hoping my time there will get me back on track to being more active generally. there was a curves not far from our campground too but I think it closed last summer. Too bad cuz I could have gone there during the summer months.

Karen why the move? Does Rich have something else he has to go to?

Okay so I guess I'll add my 2 cents. so much went wrong with our last administration that our current administration has extra hurtles to surmount. I believe it would be prudent to let our congress and senate reps know how we feel through email or phone but in the mean time; we need to give Mr. Obama a chance to make a positive change.

Karen, sorry I didn't respond to your last political comments. I did read the Romney article. It looks like we might have to agree to disagree. I see Obama's actions as showing some humility instead of what I would consider arrogance--the idea that we're always right no matter what. Yes, freedom and democracy are important, but maybe we do make mistakes sometimes and maybe there's a better way of getting our message across than by force. I don't think one side can be all right and the other side all wrong. There must be some common ground between the 2 sides, something we can work with in order to reach a compromise. Maybe I'm naive. I don't know.

Camille sounds so cute! I'd like someone to say that to me. Actually, Danit and Rafi wrote some really nice things on their birthday cards to me about what a good mother I am, etc., which was nice to hear, especially since I seem to have this terrible habit of putting myself down all the time. A lot of people tell Danit she looks like me or acts like me. It was nice to know she takes that as a compliment, not an insult! This was also the first time Darren (Danit's husband) wrote something on the card, so I definitely felt loved and appreciated. We ate at a restaurant called Hugos which has a lot of healthy things that I've never eaten, so I wanted to try them--like quinoa and some weird-tasting green juice. Of course, I made up for all the healthy stuff with a huge piece of chocolate cake for dessert.

Karen, can't you sell the house "as is"? Do you definitely have to move? Where would you go? I know what you mean about needing some time at home sometimes, but I think it's great that you get away on the weekends so often. Sounds like you're always having fun.

Hoping your birthday dinner celebration was great for you! Always fun to go out with your family. Again, Happy birthday!

I have had such fun with Camille this week. I am meeting my daughter tomorrow in Holyoke to do the exchange...will go shopping while down there. I was hoping my friend was going to drive down with me but those plans fell through. Camille told me tonight when I was putting her to bed that she was so sad and was going to miss me. I said she couldn't be sad because she was still here with me ...she rolled over snuggled into her pillow and said ...okay...It was a pretty sweet moment. She also told me she would love me forever even when I'm dead. I guess that has to be the ultimate compliment~I always think its funny that my husband always wants them to stay longer, when he is working all day!
Have a great weekend everybody....weather suppose to be warm and beautiful finally here.

Thank you all for the birthday wishes here and on Facebook! Wednesday is my grocery shopping day with Avi's mother (she doesn't drive). Not too exciting--but tonight we're planning to go out to eat for my birthday (Avi, me, and the kids, except Omer who is in Costa Rica now).

Happy Birthday Lori! I hope you're dong something fun to enjoy the day! - Patti

 
This afternoon, Camille conned Papa into taking her into the attic to find something to play with.
This is what she found: A big basket full of Original Strawberry Shortcake and her Friends Dolls. She
spent the afternoon playing with them...dressing and combing their hair. It certainly brought back memories
of watching my girls play with the same dolls...

Yes, I'm okay about us disagreeing on things. Actually, that's one of the reasons I like Obama--because he seems to be making an effort to talk and listen to people who don't agree with him or with U.S. policy. I'm probably not as well informed as you, but one thing I am passionate about is the importance of listening to the other person and other points of view and not getting stuck on being right (not just in politics). As for the bailout, I am definitely not an economic genius (I hate math and my mind seems to close when it comes to banks, money issues, etc.), but it seems to me that Obama has been taking advice from the best economic minds in the country. If they don't know what they're talking about, who does?

Okay, Patti, if you say so, I'll consider myself witty--though usually it seems like I make people laugh the most when I'm NOT trying to be funny.

And, Karen, though I am an Obama supporter, you are definitely my favorite conservative. I admire your passion and the fact that you take action on your beliefs. I'm more passive and uninvolved in these kind of things.

You know Lori I think that's an interesting perspective on using Facebook. Sometimes it is very conversational people seem to be throwing as you put it "witty come backs" back and forth. I hadn't looked at it that way but you're right. However, most of the responses are not in real time. Often they are several hours later. My point now that I rambled a bit, is that I think everyone uses Facebook differently and you are the quick and witty as any of us. So there.

Anyway I still say I like this better. It's more conversational. I'm glad we have them both.

I know how you feel about Facebook, Patti. I look at it once in a while, but I can't seem to get into it the way I'm hooked on the blog. It hasn't become a daily habit for me like the blog has. I do better in smaller formats like this. I'm not very quick on the rebound or whatever that's called when you're good at throwing back witty responses. Or is that just an excuse? I don't know what's holding me back.

I always enjoy the times our sons decide they need to move back in. Unfortunately I can't really think of a scenerio in which that will happen again. But you never know.

I'm heading up to P.I. tomorrow for a mammogram and bone density scan. Next time around I'll have it done here but it's already scheduled so I'm going ahead. Next month I have a dental appointment up there too. I just haven't felt like making those necessary changes.

You know I like being able to come here and talk because I know who my audience is. I can speak freely. In Facebook anyone who has added me as a"friend" included my former students can see anything I write. It doesn't lend itself to sharing. Here over the years I've felt comfortable telling you ladies, and Richard where ever you are these days what I'm really thinking or feeling.

I can just imagine that Monday gloom with the wind and rain outside. It's nice to be in a warm, cozy house, but when you don't have electricity and can't make coffee, I guess it's not so cozy!

I didn't know your son was doing a massage therapy course, Patti. It should be easy to find a job doing that. Yes, Rafi's back with us right now. Maybe he'll start looking for an apartment, but right now he has to readjust to life in L.A. first. His head is still in Seville.

A Vermonter captured by pirates! And then freed!

That's good news Lori. I'm glad Rafi enjoyed his trip. Is he living with you again?

Kevin finishes his massage therapy courses this week and sends away for his license. Then he plans to go to San Diego and spend time with a friend for 10 days. I hope he has a job before he leaves. Thats the mom talking. I think Colin will like having the house to himself for a while.

My son, Rafi, got back last night from his month in Seville, Spain where he was studying Flamenco guitar and Spanish. We've been hearing all his stories about his time there. He loved it! He really clicked with the place--loved the atmosphere, the warmth of the people, the lifestyle, etc. A friend of his from Israel was there with him, too, so that made it even more fun for him. He came back in such a good mood. It seems like it was just what he needed to help him heal over the separation from his wife.

Happy Birthday, Richard!!! Where are you???

Wow Lori, that's definitely a whole different situation. We rarely are together so its almost always uncomfortable. Dave's dad is here but we didn't make it to church as Dave was feeling sick this a.m. We'd gotten up, we were ready to go, I had put together a casserole for the Easter Breakfast and poof, no go. Oh well.
A quiet day here in the chilly 30's.

I find holidays a little stressful myself...so I completely understand, Lori.
We are going to my sisters house in Lebanon tomorrow for dinner...I am cooking a turkey to take and she is doing the ham. My sister-in-law and kids are coming down from Milton, so it will be nice to see them. It is Heather's birthday today, so we will have cake for dessert tomorrow. Neil went to work late morning today, so it has thrown his day way off...I don't have to make dinner...he can have some leftovers when he gets home. I did do a little cleaning and made a 4oth birthday card...
Happy Birthday Richard...where ever you are lately!

Patti, I think it's the opposite in Avi's family. They see each other TOO much, so then they get into each other's business too much. It's definitely not a problem of being polite and reserved--more a problem of one person thinking he's right and the other's wrong and telling that person how he should do this or shouldn't do that, basically how he should live his life. Get the picture?!

I'm glad you're feeling better about things Lori! I wonder if sometimes holidays are a pain because we don't get together often enough and so we get on each others deserves too easily. Sometimes I find our family feels like guests more than family. Polite, reserved, uncomfortable.........

That's okay, Patti, you can still wish me a Happy Passover! Now that it's over, I'm able to laugh about it more. I think that's nice that Obama had a Seder at the White House. Well, I'm back to the kitchen. Today the group will be here again for Kiddush, our Friday night meal, but I'm used to that. I don't get stressed about that anymore.

Well I was going to wish you a Happy Passover Lori but now I'm not sure I should. Sorry it went badly for you last night. I thought it was pretty great that there was a Seder supper at the White House.

Dave's dad arrives today and will stay through the weekend. Should be fun though I wish the boys were here too.

The yard is drying up well and I can see an over abundance if there can be such a thing; of iris, a couple of tulips, and some crocus. Next year there will be an abundance of other spring flowers, both out front and back of the house. I'd love to come and help you rake and weed Kathi, just think of me as there in spirit!

A blessed Good Friday to you all. - Pat

I'll volunteer Karen and Patti to help you in the garden. How's that?! They seem to be into gardening. I'm recovering today from having the Passover dinner here last night. We usually go to Avi's sister's house, but she didn't feel like doing it this year--so I sort of got volunteered. It was a little hectic and tiring, and we finished really late so now I'm just kind of grumpy and wondering why we need these damn holidays. They seem to bring out the worst in people. Sorry. Just letting off some steam. I'm okay.

Can everyone say...Spring Fever, Spring Fever....the kids were wild and crazy today. It is cold here, upper 30s and windy...I guess it would be kite flying weather if you had mittens on to hold the string. Oh well, it will get warmer soon!
I went for my follow up appointment for my elbow and hand. He said it was healing nicely but to keep my activities limited for another six weeks. The ligament holding the tendion together was pretty shot and it will take up to 3 months for it to heal...slow but sure he said. Guess I'll need to have my friends come over and help garden!!! Any volunteers??? lol....
Have fun Karen...think you should put a bet down for me!!!

that's a beautiful Azalea Karen. the setting is great. Do you enjoyed the races?

I look forward to having blooms in the area here. In the meantime I bought a magnificent Hydrangea which I am keeping in my living room. so far I see Iris starting and maybe lilies but its too early for them so probably not.

I didn't say it was low calorie! But it is pretty tasty!

Wow, thanks Kathi, I especially like the 2 parts butter!

HASH BROWN POTATO CASSEROLE BY Kathi

1 (26 oz)thawed shredded hash brown potatoes 1/2 stick melted butter
1 (15 oz)can cream of chicken soup 1/2 tsp. onion powder
1 (8 oz) sour cream
1 cup shredded cheddar cheese

1. Melt butter, add soup,sour cream, onion; mix well.
2. Add Hash Browns and stir into soup mixture.
3. Add cheese, saving some for the top.
4. Put into greased 13x9 baking dish.
5. Top with remaining cheese.
6. Bake at 350, uncovrd 45 minuts to 1 hour....until golden brown.

Adapt to however you want...different cheeses, salsa,chopped onion.. etc.

Yum , can I have your recipe, I'll make some for Easter breakfast at church. I'm already scheduled for a quiche.

Sorry Pat, I actually missed the waitressing route. I did go to the AW to eat but not to work. It used to be a busy place.
Multitasking...sometimes...not lately!
Karen, hope your weather warms up...we are rainy, I think you sent that this way. It rained so hard tonight before supper...huge huge puddles outback..good thing we have the drainage in the basement! Have fun with your sister. I am sure you will find something fun to do together!
I have school tomorrow...sigh...we are having a staff breakfast before school, so I had Neil help me mix up some HashBrown Casserole...everybody likes it and wants me to make it everytime....so, I'll bake that in the morning and it'll be hot for the breakfast.
Wishing everyone a fun weekend!

I am definitely not a multitasker. I can't even concentrate on my exercises at Curves if someone talks to me. And everyone knows not to talk to me in the kitchen. Either I'm talking or I'm doing something else, not both at once.

Oddly enough I have always enjoyed waitressing. don't ask me why, and I think I was good at it and could be again. However, the new restaurant opening is delayed so I don't think I'll be taking a job if offered since my availability in the summer is so sketchy. I'm bummed.

I remember our A&W days fondly don't you Lori and Karen and Karen. Kathi did you work their too my memory isn't real clear on that. We ate so much stuff free whether we were supposed to or not! I didn't like it when it was raining though. they had these ugly, heavy brown coats for us to wear. I even met some guys while I was working that I dated. Just another car-hop tart!

Today was terrific here. After class I stop and applied for a waitress job on the way home and then at the superintendents office for substituting. The afternoon was warm and I raked in the garden freeing up some iris. Then I enjoyed a cold HIPA in the sun. Now we're going to have a burger and rice for supper. A quiet evening home.

Pretty funny Lori!!! April Fool's Day entertainment...kids didn't know the difference between fooling someone and scaring them...
I made a mushroom, onion and rice soup tonight for dinner...it was pretty tasty. Of course, I took dinner over to my neighbor...(along with some leftovers)...now I am wanting chocolate pudding....which I won't make.
Nothing much new here....it was damp, raw and rainy here today...but temps tomorrow are suppose to be close to 60. That is what we are waiting for!!
Hope all is well with my friends...

Hi you guys. I'm mad at all of you...........April Fool's! (Okay, okay, I know that's pretty lame, but I couldn't think of anything better.)

Kathi, you are definitely very nice, but I can also definitely understand how tiring that can be! That lady is lucky she has you for a neighbor. I have a 97-year-old neighbor, but her unmarried sixty-something-year old son lives with her and takes care of her. Doesn't seem like he has much of a life. I feel guilty most of the time that I barely go over to see her--though I've written a few poems about her! (Does that count for anything?!). Last time I saw her, it didn't seem like she really knew who I was anyway.

Patti, I don't know if the readjusting gets easier because I fly a lot. It just seems that when I'm away for a shorter time, it's easier to get back into things here.

My gosh Kathi, after all that she was released. I can well imagine her daughter was mad. They're going to have to figure out something other than having you watch out for her. That's quite a responsibility. I know it's not in you to just let her monitor herself. Her family really needs to step it up here.

Do you ever get tired of being "nice"???? Its not that I don't want to be nice but it can get to be exhausting. We are having all these budget issues like I've told you...and some want to talk all the time to be about it....with me....Saturday, my elderly neighbor, whom I adore...came over while I was outside reading in the sun, chatted for a while and then walked back to her house. I watched her get there safely..and a few minutes later she is on her steps ringing this bell on the side of her door and waving...so I go over, and she is in the middle of a stroke. I get her to the hospital, call her daughter who lives 2 hours away....wait there at the hospital with her until she comes...a little traumatic for us both...yesterday, I go and visit with her at the hospital for a couple of hours...today, I come home for a few minutes before going up to visit her, call her hospital room to see if she needs anything brought up only to find out they released her a couple of hours before..so I call her at home...she is out feeding the birds...sigh...so I go over and make her go into the house...make her supper and call her daughter who had no idea that they had released her....she had talked to her twice during the day and nothing was said to the daughter about releasing her...so she is upset...and I feel like I have to check on her until they figure out the arrangements of care for her. She seems to think its fine to stay alone....luckily, it is only her speech that has been effected....I am sure she will be fine, I just don't want that responsibility of making sure she is. Anyways, I guess I will still be nice....We had talked about her helping me clean because I couldn't scrub things..to which she had responded no, I don't think so....so I told her...next time, she didn't have to be so dramatic and just say no!

The sky is bright and I'm seeing more and more of peoples yards now. I'm looking forward to seeing what might be growing in the raised beds here. I've seen signs of Iris I believe.

Lori are you feeling like you're back to your CA routine again? Since you make the trip so often is is more difficult or does it get easier to just get back to the day to day?

I'm off to a birthday party cookout today and then knitting in Orono at Fiberphilia.

beautiful spring rain today

It's nice that you can appreciate the sunshine after all the bad things going on! I don't have a black car, but my son Rafi does, so I'll have to let him know about that. So the farmers have to get their cows to stop farting?!!

Dead hens...pretty funny, huh....
I am sitting here and Neil has the news on....after watching Glen Beck's show and now the news, I am so tired of it all...Lori, I hope you don't have a black car in CA...as of 2013 they will be illegal (so the news said) because it will use much more air conditioning to cool it down making the emissions more. Dairy and small farmers watch out too....cows are producing too much gas...got to tax the cows...Karen, are you going to host a tea party on April 15th??? You could have Glen at your home...I told Neil that's what he should do....
We are in such a turmoil here in Springfield with the budget not passing the first time, the superintendent has sent pink slips to 60 teachers...including eliminating all music and art programs...it is a "threating tactic" or will/can he really reduce the staff that much IF the budget doesn't pass this next week??? Makes it such a joy to go and try to teach children...So, of course, everyone is edgy...plus we are making up days on the next 2 Saturdays...
Good news is my hand works really well...although I am still not twisting and lifting on the elbow...Someone gave me a bottle of vitamin E to rub into the scars..seems to be working really well...so there is my medical advice of the day...use vitamin E oil on scars....
We had the most beautiful day here today..65 degrees!!! So so nice. I am sure the rain from Karen later this weekend...but for now the sunshine is heavenly.
Happy weekend everybody!!

Exercise is the last thing I get back into when I come home from a trip. My goal is to get back to Curves next week. That's nice that you have a group of friends at the gym to go to lunch with after you exercise! So we're hens now? What comes after that?!

Thanks, Patti. I'm glad you're getting something out of them. As for resting up, I haven't done much of that since I got back--just jumped right back in to laundry, bills, buying groceries, etc. etc. So different from being on vacation! It usually takes me a week to get back into things here. I don't know why it's going faster this time, but I'm not complaining.

Welcome home Lori, I found more of your poems today. Such a pleasure to enjoy them. Rest up.

Hi. I've been catching up on everyone's news. I got back from Israel this morning. I'm too tired to write much now. It was a good visit. Short and sweet. I had quality time with my family and saw my friends at the end of the visit. Two friends are going through difficult times with their kids. One friend's son suffered some kind of trauma in the army a few years ago. He was doing okay for a while cuz he had a girlfriend, but now she broke up with him, so he's really falling apart. Another friend's daughter was hospitalized for some kind of mental breakdown. Life seems so bittersweet sometimes. So much suffering--but also a lot of happy times....

Kathy, I'm amazed you can teach with all the construction going on. Just driving by Union St School looks as though the whole school is in a bubble of construction plastic and portable rooms. Sorry you have to make up days on the weekends. They used to build extra days in. This IS Vermont afterall.
Pat, your class sounds interesting. It's a whole lot different going back to school at this age, you actually learn cuz you want to and can find it interesting. The teacher also makes a big difference.
My Celtic Woman concert was awsome. There voices are so angelic. Even my son-in law enjoyed it. Course he had a few beers too. Sheila (my middle daughter)lives in Dunbarton NH just outside of Manchester.
I haven't seen my granddaughters for a while now. Lily is in Florida for 10 days and my little one was sick this weekend.
So we did a lot of yard work this weekend taking cae of trees Ron cut down. What a mess. Beautiful weekend tho. I can see 1/4 of my yard. Still alot of snow to go.